You are playing the wrong game, and you are going to lose.

We’ve been duped and don’t even realize it.

Photo by Pedro da Silva on Unsplash

There was a time when the conventional wisdom made a lot of sense, and it was in your best interest to follow the “rules”. Back in the day when everyone dreamed of the Leave it to Beaver style life, with the nuclear family, 2.5 kids, a house with a white picket fence, and a dog, it was…